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Prue Leith challenges assumptions that old age means misery
Dame Prue Leith, an 86-year-old former Great British Bake Off judge, spoke about ageing at the 2026 Henley Literary Festival in Henley-on-Thames.
She said she wrote her book, Being Old...and Learning to Love It!, because she was tired of people treating old age as something miserable.
Leith said her turbulent teenage years were more stressful than being old.
She acknowledged that some older people are ill, lonely or unhappy, but said people who are well should enjoy their lives.
After her first husband died in 2002, she spent two years feeling deeply unhappy before coming to value living on her own.
She later fell in love with John Playfair at 70, and said the experience felt like falling in love at 17.
Her message is that staying open to new experiences can help people find happiness; the festival runs until 11 October.
Dame Prue Leith has criticised assumptions that people are miserable because they are old.
The 86-year-old spoke at the 2026 Henley Literary Festival about her book Being Old...and Learning to Love It!
She said her teenage years were more stressful than being old.
Leith urged people who are well to enjoy life and stay open to new experiences.
She also described falling in love again at 70, after becoming a widow.
- Who
- Dame Prue Leith, former Great British Bake Off judge.
- What
- She challenged negative assumptions about old age and discussed her experiences of ageing.
- When
- At the 2026 Henley Literary Festival.
- Where
- Henley-on-Thames, England.
- Why
- She said she wrote her book in response to people treating old age as inevitably miserable.
This story does not have two clearly opposing sides.
What is negative about being old?
I was 70, but I had that same thing of your heart going, like a kettle drum, and anxiety about whether he'll phone or ring or something.
But if there’s nothing wrong with you, for God’s sake, enjoy it.
Leith’s first husband, Rayne Kruger, died.
Leith married John Playfair, a retired clothes designer.
Leith’s book Being Old...and Learning to Love It! was published.
Leith spoke about ageing and her book at the festival.
- Age
- 86
- Book
- Being Old...and Learning to Love It!
- Festival
- 2026 Henley Literary Festival
- First husband
- Rayne Kruger
- Second husband
- John Playfair
- Marriage date
- October 2016









