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How Celebration Culture Turns Birthdays Into Performative Stress

Birthdays are supposed to be days for enjoying yourself.

But social media can make people compare their birthdays with other people's exciting-looking celebrations.

Some people see photos of big parties, trips and many birthday messages online.

This can make their own day seem less special, even when it is not.

A survey found that some people feel hurt when close friends do not post a public birthday message.

A private birthday wish may not feel sufficient to them.

This can create pressure to make a birthday look impressive.

The celebration may start feeling like a show instead of a genuinely enjoyable day.

Key facts

Age group highlighted: People aged 18-34 are described as especially affected by birthday-related social-media comparison.
Survey source: A 2023 American Psychological Association survey is cited.
Additional survey: A YouGov survey is cited regarding reactions to public birthday messages.
Reported reaction: One-third of people surveyed said they felt hurt when someone close skipped a public birthday shoutout.
Comparison triggers: Destination parties, surprise gatherings and numerous heartfelt posts are presented as examples of online birthday highlights.
Central concern: Birthdays can become focused on outward appearance rather than how the person actually feels.

timesnownews.com · 1 week ago