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Why adolescent girls are lonelier than boys, experts say

Why adolescent girls are lonelier than boys, experts say
Why are adolescent girls lonelier than boys? Experts say the answer goes beyond gender · firstpost.com

Sometimes teenagers feel lonely, even when they are surrounded by classmates, friends and family.

A big study in South Asia looked at nearly 8,000 teenagers in Afghanistan, Bangladesh and Pakistan.

It found that more girls than boys said they felt lonely: 18.1% versus 12.3%.

The study also showed that teenagers who were bullied, had no close friends, or had trouble sleeping because of worries were more likely to feel lonely.

Some experts think girls may feel more isolated because safety concerns and social expectations limit how freely they can meet people.

Others point out that boys may find it harder to talk about their feelings because of gendered expectations.

Experts say loneliness is not simply about how many friends someone has—it is about feeling safe, accepted and understood.

They believe schools can help by offering peer groups, mentoring, sports, arts and counselling to every student.

Even chatting online with many people does not always make a teenager feel less alone.

The most helpful thing for a lonely adolescent is having even one space where they feel heard.

Key facts

Study
BMC Public Health, 2026
Sample size
7,903 adolescents
Study countries
Afghanistan, Bangladesh, Pakistan
Girls reporting loneliness
18.1%
Boys reporting loneliness
12.3%
Indian report
2025 IC3 Student Well-being Pulse Report (8,500+ students)
Persistent sadness in India
Girls nearly twice as likely as boys
Factors linked to loneliness
Bullying, physical attacks, anxiety-related sleep disturbances, suicidal thoughts, no close friends

Quotes

Dr Mimansa Singh Tanwar

Clinical psychologist and head of a mental health program at Fortis Healthcare

“"The gender gap within the loneliness gap is not necessarily about who feels lonelier, but rather about how gendered expectations can create or deepen feelings of isolation," Tanwar said.”
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“"Loneliness is not gender-specific," said Dr Mimansa Singh Tanwar, Clinical Psychologist and Head of Fortis School Mental Health Program.”
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Reshmithaa Nair

Counselling psychologist at SPARSH Hospital, Bengaluru

“"The 18.1% figure among girls, compared with 12.3% among boys, therefore warrants greater attention from families, schools, psychologists and communities," she said.”
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