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Shweta Bachchan Nanda on Redefining Motherhood Rituals

Shweta Bachchan Nanda on Redefining Motherhood Rituals
‘I couldn’t wake up in the morning…’: Shweta Bachchan Nanda on defying societal norms and redefining spending quality time with her kids · indianexpress.com

Shweta Bachchan Nanda, a mother of two, talked about how she connects with her kids in her own special way.

She isn't a morning person, so she doesn't wake up early to say goodbye to her children.

Instead, she picks them up from school and spends quality time with them in the afternoons.

One of her favorite rituals was taking her son Agastya to McDonald's every Friday.

A doctor explained that these small, consistent moments help children feel loved and connected.

It's not about doing what everyone else does, but about finding what works best for you and your family.

This kind of parenting teaches kids that love is about being present and genuine, not about following strict rules.

Key facts

Person
Shweta Bachchan Nanda
Children
Navya Naveli Nanda, Agastya Nanda
Podcast
Navya Naveli Nanda's podcast
Ritual
Weekly McDonald's visits with Agastya
Expert
Dr Pretty Duggar Gupta, Psychiatrist
Key Insight
Consistency and warmth in rituals foster emotional connection
Scientific Backing
Quality time over quantity is crucial for child development

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Dr. Pretty Duggar Gupta

Consultant Psychiatrist at Aster Whitefield Bangalore

“When​‍​‌‍​‍‌​‍​‌‍​‍‌ a mother is not able to carry on with the usual morning routine, small personal rituals—which may be just going to the school to pick up the kids—do a lot more than just fill up the time. From a clinical perspective, rituals and predictable micro-interactions give an impression of emotional safety: they signal repeatedly and in a reliable way to a child that 'you are important to me,' even if the bigger routine is different.”
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“the times when parents are emotionally available, responsive and engaging, though very short, have the strongest positive effect on children’s social and emotional development.”
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Shweta Bachchan Nanda

Author and mother

“I couldn’t wake up in the morning. I am not a morning person. So you guys would come, give me a kiss, and I’d say bye, have a nice day.”
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