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Experts Explain Why Poor Communication Can Turn Into Arguments

Experts Explain Why Poor Communication Can Turn Into Arguments
Karan Johar feels ‘people who can’t communicate think everything’s an argument’: What experts say · indianexpress.com

Karan Johar shared a message about how poor communication can make conversations feel like arguments.

Experts say communication means sharing thoughts and understanding what another person says.

People may struggle when they cannot explain themselves clearly.

Looking away, using an unfriendly tone or avoiding eye contact can also cause problems.

Good listening means paying attention, not interrupting and showing empathy.

Speaking clearly and using “I” statements can make conversations easier.

Open body language and a suitable tone can also help.

Experts say people should notice when they feel defensive and avoid distractions such as mobile phones.

Better communication can reduce misunderstandings and help relationships and work interactions.

Key facts

Central message
People who cannot communicate may interpret everything as an argument.
Communication elements
Social psychology principles cited in the article identify proximity, common goals and communication of needs, wants and opinions.
Warning signs
Unclear speech, poor body language, weak active listening, distraction and defensiveness.
Relationship effects
Poor communication can lead to conflicts, arguments, misunderstandings and resentment.
Work effects
People with inadequate communication may fail to present themselves properly and damage their work reputation.
Recommended practice
Listen actively, speak clearly and concisely, use “I” statements and ask for clarification.
Nonverbal advice
Maintain eye contact, use open body language and match tone to the message.

Quotes

Ashutosh Tiwari

Psychologist at MindGlass Well-being in Delhi.

“According to the principles of social psychology, forming a group or making an impression requires three key elements, such as physical proximity, some common goals, and communication of needs, wants, and opinions. Communicating with someone requires the recipient to figure out and respond to a message.”
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“Withdrawing or becoming defensive in conversations might be normal- notice when you are feeling defensive and address the thoughts and emotions that are coming up. Do not get distracted by mobile phones, and respect the presence of the person in front of you.”
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