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Gujarat Mother Learns Independence Can Strengthen Family Connection

Gujarat Mother Learns Independence Can Strengthen Family Connection
'My 12-YO Wanted More Space': This Gujarat Mom Learnt That Growing Up Doesn’t Mean Growing Apart · thebetterindia.com

Komal Baxi noticed that her son sometimes wanted to stay home instead of joining family outings.

At first, this made her feel as if he did not want to be with the family.

She later understood that he was becoming more independent, not rejecting them.

She let him stay home, but asked him to make his own food.

She helped him learn simple recipes and kitchen safety.

Over time, she gave him more responsibility and stopped checking every small detail.

She also let him make some mistakes without saying, “I told you so.”

When he feels sad after losing a cricket match, the family gives him comfort and time to process his feelings.

Baxi says parents can become a child’s safe place instead of trying to control everything.

Key facts

Parent
Komal Baxi
Profession
RCI-certified psychologist with more than 15 years of experience
Location
Gujarat
Child’s education
Her son is homeschooled
Responsibility taught
Cooking, decision-making and managing travel needs
Family ritual
Saturday Monopoly games can last three or four hours
Parenting principle
Independence can coexist with connection

Quotes

Komal Baxi

Gujarat-based RCI-certified psychologist and parent

“He wasn’t leaving us behind. He was leaving something behind to add something new to his personality.”
thebetterindia.com
“Sometimes giving children space creates more room for connection.”
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