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Remembering Champabai, the invisible domestic helper who raised family
Champabai was a woman who helped take care of a family's children for 18 years.
She worked for a writer named Aparna Piramal Raje.
She helped raise Aparna's two sons, Amartya and Agastya.
Champabai was like a beloved grandmother to the boys.
She cooked, cleaned, bathed, sung, and comforted the children.
Sadly, Champabai died suddenly while she was buying groceries in her hometown, Howrah.
Aparna was very sad and wondered how to honour someone whose work was so important but often invisible.
Many people who help families in this way are not remembered with big ceremonies.
Aparna shared photographs and letters about Champabai with friends and family to collect their memories of her.
She hopes that the everyday work of caregivers will be remembered and cherished.
Champa Devi Paswan, known as Champabai, served as Aparna Piramal Raje's domestic helper (jhapa) for 18 years, helping raise her sons Amartya and Agastya.
Champabai died unexpectedly in her mid-sixties after collapsing while grocery shopping in Howrah.
Raje asks how to properly grieve a caregiver whose intimate, essential labour was largely invisible and honoured without public ceremonies.
The family took antim darshan over a video call, will hold a puja, and will continue supporting Champabai's family financially.
Raje shared a photo book of memories with friends and family and cites artist Saviya Lopes's painting of domestic objects as a tribute to such labour.
- Who
- Champa Devi Paswan (Champabai), domestic helper to writer Aparna Piramal Raje's family for 18 years; also Raje's sons Amartya and Agastya
- What
- Champabai died unexpectedly, prompting Raje to reflect on how to grieve and honour her largely invisible caregiving work
- Where
- Howrah, where she lived with her husband, sons, and grandchildren
- When
- A few days before the essay was written; she had left the family's employment the previous year
- Why
- She collapsed while out grocery shopping; her death raised questions about how society remembers the everyday labour of domestic helpers
Key facts
- Deceased
- Champa Devi Paswan (Champabai)
- Role
- Domestic helper (jhapa) and nanny
- Years with family
- 18 years
- Age at death
- Mid-sixties
- Circumstances of death
- Collapsed while grocery shopping in Howrah
- Author
- Aparna Piramal Raje, writer and public speaker
- Family tribute
- Video-call antim darshan, upcoming puja, and continued financial support
- Lasting tribute
- Photo book of photographs and letters, plus a painting by Saviya Lopes
Quotes
Champa Devi Paswan
Domestic helper who cared for the writer’s family
“"This didi doesn’t know very much. I will have to teach her everything."”
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