2 weeks ago
Anupama Parameswaran reveals narcissistic abuse, says she is finally healing
Anupama Parameswaran is an actress who acted in a movie called Premam.
She recently told people about something very sad that happened in her life.
She said that for two years, someone treated her in a hurtful way called 'narcissistic abuse.'
That means someone made her feel small and hurt her feelings again and again.
She said she felt like she was shrinking instead of growing and lost a lot of weight.
She posted a message on Instagram last month saying people should let go of 'dead ends' to find peace.
Some people were kind and said they were happy she was healing.
Other people said unkind and unfair things about her post.
She explained that the post came after a lot of pain and that she waited until she was ready to talk about it.
Now she says she is finally healing and finding peace in her life.
Anupama Parameswaran said in an interview that she endured 'narcissistic abuse' for two years and is finally healing.
She spoke on the I AM with Dhanya Varma podcast, weeks after a cryptic Instagram post reading 'you have to let go of the dead ends to finally find your peace.'
She said there was 'two years of pain, physical, emotional destruction' behind the post, and that she shared it only when she was ready.
She did not name the person involved, but said she began to 'shrink' rather than bloom and lost a significant amount of weight during the relationship.
Her comments came amid past speculation that she was dating actor Dhruv Vikram while working on Mari Selvaraj's Bison Kaalamaadan, which neither has publicly confirmed.
- Who
- Anupama Parameswaran, the Premam actress, who spoke about the experience on the I AM with Dhanya Varma podcast.
- What
- She revealed that she endured two years of 'narcissistic abuse' and said she is finally healing.
- Where
- On the I AM with Dhanya Varma podcast; her earlier cryptic post was shared on Instagram.
- When
- Recently, weeks after a cryptic Instagram post she shared last month; dating reports involving her surfaced in early 2025.
- Why
- To share her journey of healing and to reach people who have suffered similar abuse but have not yet identified it.
Supporters focussing on healing
Critics posting comments based on assumptions
Response to Anupama's Instagram post
Supporters focussing on healing
Some people said she is healing and finally finding peace, which Anupama described as great.
Critics posting comments based on assumptions
Others 'said random stuff' and posted negative comments based on assumptions, with some framing the issue as gender-based.
Who the post refers to
Supporters focussing on healing
Past speculation suggests the post relates to reports that she was dating actor Dhruv Vikram while filming Bison Kaalamaadan.
Critics posting comments based on assumptions
Anupama did not name anyone, and neither she nor Dhruv Vikram has publicly confirmed the dating rumours or the subject of the post.
Key facts
- Actress
- Anupama Parameswaran
- Known for
- Premam
- Duration of abuse
- Two years
- Interview platform
- I AM with Dhanya Varma podcast
- Instagram post
- 'You have to let go of the dead ends to finally find your peace.'
- Person involved
- Not named by Anupama
- Previous dating speculation
- Actor Dhruv Vikram (unconfirmed by either)
- Linking film
- Bison Kaalamaadan, directed by Mari Selvaraj
Quotes
Anupama Parameswaran
Indian actress known for the film Premam
“you have to let go of the dead ends to finally find your peace.”
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“I have gone through narcissistic abuse for two years.”
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