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Anupama Parameswaran recalls 'narcissistic abuse' in past relationship
Anupama Parameswaran is an actress who bravely talked about a hard time in her life.
She said that a past relationship was unkind and called it 'narcissistic abuse.'
At times the person wanted to end the relationship, but two days later said he could not live without her.
This made Anupama feel very sad, and she said she cried every single night for hours.
Her body became sick from all the worry and fear.
She had panic attacks and anxiety attacks, and sometimes she had blackouts.
She lost a lot of weight, would throw up, and did not want to eat.
Her right eye started twitching, and a gland near her eye got swollen, so she needed surgery.
Anupama did not name the person, but people on social media guessed it was her movie co-star Dhruv Vikram.
She shared her story in a conversation with Dhanya Varma.
Actress Anupama Parameswaran opened up about a past relationship she described as an experience of 'narcissistic abuse.'
She did not identify the person, but social media speculated that she was referring to her Bison Kaalamaadan co-star Dhruv Vikram.
She described a relationship lacking stability, with intense affection repeatedly giving way to distressing episodes.
She said the relationship caused panic attacks, anxiety attacks, blackouts, weight loss, vomiting, and a twitching right eye that stopped shooting.
A swollen lacrimal gland required surgery, and she said she was 'crying every single night for hours.'
- Who
- Actress Anupama Parameswaran
- What
- Revealed that a past relationship was an experience of 'narcissistic abuse' that took a severe physical and emotional toll, including panic attacks, weight loss, an eye condition, and surgery.
- Where
- Not stated in the articles.
- When
- Recently; the second part of her conversation with Dhanya Varma was released over the past few days.
- Why
- To speak candidly about the severe physical and emotional impact the relationship had on her.
Advocates for open disclosure
Concerned about speculation
Social media speculation over the unnamed partner
Advocates for open disclosure
Anupama's candid account helps raise public awareness about the serious health toll that 'narcissistic abuse' can take.
Concerned about speculation
Because Anupama never identified anyone, online speculation pointing at Dhruv Vikram risks unfairly implicating an unconfirmed individual.
Key facts
- Actor
- Anupama Parameswaran
- Relationship described as
- 'Narcissistic abuse'
- Person named by Anupama
- None (identity not disclosed)
- Social media speculation
- Dhruv Vikram, her Bison Kaalamaadan co-star
- Interviewer
- Dhanya Varma
- Reported symptoms
- Panic attacks, anxiety attacks, blackouts, weight loss, vomiting, right eye twitching
- Medical treatment
- Surgery for a swollen lacrimal gland
- Related film
- Bison Kaalamaadan
Quotes
Anupama Parameswaran
Indian actress known for roles in Malayalam cinema
“There were times when this person would say, ‘Let’s end this,’ and two days later he would say, ‘I can’t live without you, baby!’ Then there would be a patch‑up.”
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