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John Lewis Christmas advert sparks debate over 'crisis in boyhood' and rave nostalgia

John Lewis Christmas advert sparks debate over 'crisis in boyhood' and rave nostalgia
The John Lewis ad: touching, or just weird? · theweek.com

John Lewis, a popular store in the UK, released its yearly Christmas advertisement.

This year, it's about a dad who gets a surprise gift from his son: an old music record.

The gift takes the dad back to his younger days at a wild music party called a rave.

Then, he sees memories of his son as a baby and toddler.

The ad's message is that if you don't know what to say, give a gift.

Some people think it's a touching way to show how hard it can be for boys to talk about their feelings.

Others find it strange and a bit sad for Christmas, especially because the music reminds them of parties where people might have taken drugs.

They feel it's not a happy or festive message for everyone.

It also makes people wonder if it feels too old-fashioned for younger generations.

Key facts

Advertiser
John Lewis
Advert Theme
Christmas advert focusing on father-son relationship and gift-giving
Featured Song
Alison Limerick - 'Where Love Lives' (1990)
Key Tagline
If you can’t find the words, find the gift
Debated Themes
Crisis in boyhood, rave nostalgia, family relationships, consumerism

Quotes

Simon Mills

commentator in The Times

“And the whole ad is weirdly disturbing.”
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“When I went to acid house raves, the very last thing I’d have wanted to see, looming out of the darkness, is any kind of relation, from the present or the future.”
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commentator

unnamed commentator recalling rave memories

“farmer trading a goat for a sack of stubble turnips”
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“absolutely wasted on E”
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Stuart Heritage

commentator in The Guardian

“I suppose the boy’s gift is a sign that he realises that his dad is a person, who has had a life of his own and has tastes equivalent to his.”
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“a profound moment for a child.”
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Ed Davies

commentator in the FT

“Over the past 18 years, the launch of the John Lewis Christmas advert has established itself as a key point in the UK’s festive calendar.”
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Jan Moir

commentator in the Daily Mail

“The masculinity crisis is not a very festive theme.”
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