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Harman Kaur’s Poems Explore Language, Migration, Grief and Home
These poems ask what home means to people who have moved between countries.
The speaker’s mother misses Panjab because she could express her feelings there without translating them.
The speaker says that language helped people understand her emotions.
The father feels caught between his old home and his new country.
The parents worked very hard in the new country so their child could pursue dreams.
Another poem describes becoming numb to grief and emotional pain.
It says healing requires facing difficult memories.
The final poem imagines learning not to carry hurt like a weapon.
The poems portray home through memories of Panjab, family, language and migration.
The speaker’s mother misses expressing emotions naturally in her maa boli and being understood.
The father is depicted as divided between Panjab’s fields and life in a new country.
The parents’ difficult agricultural work in a new country is linked to the speaker’s dreams.
“Numb” and “Chekov’s Gun” examine grief, emotional avoidance, hurt and the need to confront pain.
- Who
- The poems are written by Harman Kaur and describe a speaker, the speaker’s parents, and their relationship to Panjab and a new country.
- What
- A poetry excerpt explores home, migration, language, family sacrifice, grief and healing.
- Where
- Panjab and an unnamed new country.
- When
- Not specified in the excerpt.
- Why
- The poems reflect on feeling understood, balancing different homes, honoring family labor and confronting emotional pain.
Key facts
- Author
- Harman Kaur
- Book
- Call Me Home
- Publisher
- Speaking Tiger Books
- Central setting
- Panjab and an unnamed new country
- Key themes
- Home, migration, language, family, grief and healing
- Featured family experiences
- The mother misses her native language, while the father struggles between two places
- Excerpt note
- Published with permission from Call Me Home










