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How Rahul and Kalpana Kulkarni Built a Lasting Marriage

Rahul and Kalpana met at a friend's birthday party in 2005.

They became friends before falling in love.

Their families supported them even though they came from different castes.

They married in 2007.

Rahul says they have different personalities, but those differences help them work well together.

Kalpana helped organize their finances and cared for their son after leaving her job.

She also managed the home when Rahul had to work far away.

Rahul believes their marriage stayed strong because they support each other instead of competing.

Key facts

First meeting: October 2, 2005, at a friend's birthday party in Hiranandani, Mumbai
Marriage: December 2007
Key difference: Rahul describes himself as messy and undisciplined, while Kalpana brings discipline and organization.
Family decision: Their parents supported their inter-caste marriage.
Financial contribution: Kalpana encouraged Rahul to purchase a home; they now have two homes.
Career and childcare: Kalpana left her job when they were expecting their son and continued caring for him at home.
Central lesson: The couple says understanding and supporting each other is more important than competing.

rediff.com · 6 days ago