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Shahana Goswami Says Milind Soman’s Mind Drew Her In
Shahana Goswami said she became interested in Milind Soman when she was a teenager.
She wrote him a letter while she was still in school.
He wrote back, and they continued messaging for six years.
She said their conversations were kind and respectful, not romantic from his side.
Goswami said she was attracted to his mind and the way they talked.
A therapist explained that respect can be as important as excitement in relationships.
She also said trust grows slowly through repeated actions.
In simple terms, liking someone is not only about appearance or butterflies; it is also about how they think and treat people.
Shahana Goswami said she wrote to Milind Soman at age 16 or 17 while still in school.
She said Soman replied even though he did not usually answer fans, beginning six years of messaging.
Goswami described their communication as respectful, fond and non-flirtatious from Soman’s side.
She said her initial attraction to his appearance developed into an interest in his mind and their conversations.
A psychotherapist said the story highlights respect, character and slowly building trust alongside romantic chemistry.
- Who
- Actor Shahana Goswami and actor Milind Soman; relationship psychotherapist Delnna Rrajesh also commented on the account.
- What
- Goswami described writing to Soman as a schoolgirl and explained that his mind and their conversations drew her to him.
- Where
- The comments were made in an interview with Rediff Movies.
- When
- Goswami said she was 16 or 17 when she first wrote to Soman, and that they communicated for six years.
- Why
- Goswami said their exchanges, his mind, and the respect and fondness in their communication shaped her attraction.
Key facts
- Goswami’s age at the time
- 16 or 17, while she was still in school
- Communication period
- Six years of messaging
- Nature of communication
- Goswami described it as respectful, fond and non-flirtatious from Soman’s side
- What attracted Goswami
- Soman’s mind and the exchanges they shared
- Interview outlet
- Rediff Movies
- Expert perspective
- Delnna Rrajesh said respect, character and trust should be considered alongside attraction
Quotes
Shahana Goswami
Actor discussing her longstanding correspondence and friendship with Milind Soman
“But access is not intimacy. Knowing someone’s favourite food, childhood stories and relationship history does not necessarily mean knowing their character. Information can be exchanged instantly. Trust cannot. Trust develops through patterns.”
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“What I was attracted to was his mind…Initially I thought I was attracted to the person I saw…but what really drew me into him was the kind of exchanges we had.”
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