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How Body Shaming Can Affect Pleasure and Intimacy

How Body Shaming Can Affect Pleasure and Intimacy

Body shaming means criticizing or demeaning someone’s appearance, openly or indirectly.

The piece says it can lead people to fixate on perceived flaws and see themselves more negatively.

That can make closeness harder if someone fears a partner will notice those flaws.

It also links body shaming with anhedonia, the inability to experience pleasure, because pleasure involves the body and its senses.

The piece traces negative ideas about bodies to social comparisons, old superstitions and religious or philosophical teachings that treated bodily pleasure as sinful.

It argues that sensual and sexual capacities are natural, and that turning people against their bodies can limit their ability to enjoy them.

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Body shaming—criticizing or demeaning someone’s appearance, overtly or covertly—is linked to what psychologists call dysmorphia
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Sigmund FreudPsychologist, as quoted in the article
the suppression of a woman’s sexuality
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Friend of the authorPerson describing her perception of her vagina
A weird little organ
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Pope GregoryMedieval pope, as quoted in the article
sensual pleasure can never be without sin
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