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Prithviraj Sukumaran Urges Safety Conversations With Girls And Boys

Prithviraj Sukumaran Urges Safety Conversations With Girls And Boys
Prithviraj Sukumaran on responsibilities of being a girl dad: ‘I’m at that uncomfortable stage…’ · indianexpress.com

Prithviraj Sukumaran says being a father has changed how he sees safety in society.

He has an 11-year-old daughter and wants to teach her what is safe and unsafe.

He says these talks should happen with boys too, not only girls.

Boys should learn about consent, boundaries, empathy and respecting refusals.

Psychologist Athul Raj says safety lessons should change as children grow.

Children should know they can say no and tell a trusted adult when something feels wrong.

Parents should listen calmly instead of getting angry or blaming the child.

Girls should not be made responsible for another person’s harmful behavior.

Key facts

Speaker
Prithviraj Sukumaran
Child’s age
Sukumaran said his daughter is 11 years old.
Film discussed
Daayra
Psychologist
Athul Raj
Core advice
Teach children about safety, bodily autonomy, consent and boundaries.
Parent response
Listen, reassure and help children feel safe when they share concerns.
Responsibility
Raj said responsibility for boundary violations lies with the person who chooses to violate them.

Quotes

Prithviraj Sukumaran

Malayalam actor discussing parenting and child safety while promoting Daayra

“But what we can do as citizens is talk to our children. And make no mistake, the conversation should not just be to your girl children. It should also be to your boy children. I strongly believe that if at all, there is an extra ounce of responsibility on any side, it is with us, the men.”
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“I have a daughter, eleven years old. I’m at that uncomfortable stage as a parent where I have to start talking to her and letting her know about what is safe, what is unsafe. If we lived in an ideal world, I would never have had that conversation. But we don’t live in an ideal world.”
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