Child Psychologists Outline 6 Pillars of Happy Kids

Imagine your home is like a special garden for kids.

To make it happy, grown-ups need to give lots of hugs and tell their kids they are loved no matter what, like a sunny day that's always there.

It's also important to have clear rules, like knowing when it's time for bed, so kids feel safe and know what to expect.

When kids get upset, grown-ups should help them understand their feelings, like naming a storm cloud.

Being super specific when you say 'good job!'

helps kids know exactly what they did well.

Finally, playing games or doing fun things together, chosen by the child, makes everyone feel connected and part of a team.

These things together help kids grow up feeling loved, secure, and happy.