Archive · 3 Sep 2025
Shrekking: New Dating Trend, Seeking Loyalty Over Looks
Have you heard of the movie Shrek?
Well, "shrekking" in dating is when someone chooses a partner they think is less attractive.
It's like they're picking someone based on looks, because they think it will lead to more loyalty.
But, experts say this isn't always true.
Some people do it because they're scared of being alone.
These relationships can have problems because one person might feel resentful.
Real love is when you both feel seen, heard and loved.
"Shrekking" involves choosing a partner perceived as less attractive to ensure loyalty.
Experts suggest this stems from insecurity or a fear of rejection.
It manifests in two ways: One partner prioritizing emotional security or a partner settling for less.
Social media and societal pressures influence relationship choices and expectations.
Such relationships can lead to passive-aggression, low intimacy, and unmet emotional needs.
- Who
- People in romantic relationships
- What
- Shrekking, where one partner is perceived as less attractive
- When
- Currently, as a recent dating trend
- Where
- Dating apps and real life
- Why
- To ensure loyalty, and address insecurities.
- Term Origin
- Shrek movie
- Concept
- Partner chosen for perceived lower attractiveness
- Reasoning
- Ensure loyalty, offer emotional security
- Potential Downsides
- Passive-aggression, low intimacy