Archive · 20 Sep 2026
Balbir Singh Sodhi Story of Forgiveness After 9/11
Balbir Singh Sodhi was a Sikh man who lived in Mesa, Arizona.
He was shot and killed four days after the September 11 attacks in 2001.
The attacker wrongly connected Balbir’s turban and appearance with the terrorists.
This made Balbir one of the first victims of hate after 9/11.
His family was deeply hurt and also received threats.
Years later, Balbir’s brother Rana spoke with the attacker, Frank Roque, in prison.
Roque apologized, and the family said they forgave him.
The family believed forgiveness could bring peace and help stop more hate.
People from many religions now gather to remember Balbir and promote understanding.
Balbir Singh Sodhi was killed outside his Mesa, Arizona, gas station on September 15, 2001, becoming the first Sikh victim of a post-9/11 hate crime.
Sodhi was targeted because of his turban and was mistakenly associated with Osama bin Laden.
His brother Rana Singh Sodhi and the family reached out to shooter Frank Roque and forgave him during a 2016 prison phone call.
Roque’s death sentence was commuted to life imprisonment, and he died in prison in 2022.
Mesa’s interfaith community commemorated Sodhi’s death 25 years later with prayers for hate-crime victims and everyone who died on 9/11.
- Who
- Balbir Singh Sodhi, his family, shooter Frank Roque, and Mesa’s interfaith community.
- What
- Sodhi was killed in a post-9/11 hate crime, and his family later forgave Roque while commemorating his life and advocating peace.
- When
- Sodhi was killed on September 15, 2001; the family spoke with Roque in 2016; Roque died in 2022; the 25th-anniversary commemoration occurred 25 years after the killing.
- Where
- Outside Sodhi’s gas station in Mesa, Arizona, and later in a phone call between the Sodhi family and Roque in prison.
- Why
- Sodhi was targeted because Roque mistakenly associated his turban and appearance with Osama bin Laden; the family later pursued forgiveness for peace and closure.
Initial anger and self-defense
Forgiveness and reconciliation
Response to the killing
Initial anger and self-defense
Frank Roque initially defended himself during the 2016 call, saying that the 9/11 attacks had broken him as an American.
Forgiveness and reconciliation
Rana Singh Sodhi and his family said they had forgiven Roque for peace and closure, rather than seeking revenge.
Meaning of the tragedy
Initial anger and self-defense
The killing reflected the anger and mistaken associations that led some people to target turban-wearing Sikhs after 9/11.
Forgiveness and reconciliation
The Sodhi family and community transformed the tragedy into efforts promoting peace, interfaith understanding, Sikh awareness, and reduced hate crimes.
- Victim
- Balbir Singh Sodhi, a 49-year-old Sikh man
- Killing date
- September 15, 2001
- Location
- Mesa, Arizona
- Attacker
- Frank Roque
- Forgiveness call
- September 16, 2016
- Sentence
- Roque’s death sentence was commuted to life imprisonment
- Roque’s death
- He died in prison in 2022