Archive · 27 Dec 2025
Neha Dhupia on Working Moms' Guilt
Neha Dhupia, a working mom and actress, talked about the guilt she feels when she can't spend enough time with her daughter.
She shared that her daughter said, 'Mama, you are just coming back home for bedtime, and then I don’t see you…' This made Neha feel guilty.
Dr. Pavitra Shankar, a psychiatrist, explained that children feel this absence emotionally, not logically.
They might become clingy, anxious, or act out.
Dr. Shankar said that the quality of time spent with children matters more than the quantity.
She also advised parents to validate their children's feelings instead of making excuses or overcompensating.
Neha and Dr. Shankar both agreed that working mothers should not feel too guilty because it's important for children to see their parents as emotionally stable and fulfilled adults.
Neha Dhupia shared her experience of mom guilt, feeling overwhelmed by the balance between work and parenting.
Her daughter's comment, 'Mama, you are just coming back home for bedtime, and then I don’t see you…' highlighted the emotional impact on children.
Dr. Pavitra Shankar explained that children experience a parent's absence emotionally, not logically, which can lead to various behavioral changes.
The quality of connection and emotional reliability matters more than the quantity of time spent with children.
Parents should validate their children's feelings instead of making excuses or overcompensating for their absence.
- Who
- Neha Dhupia and Dr. Pavitra Shankar
- What
- Discussion on working moms' guilt and its effects on children
- When
- Recent reflection shared with Yuvaa
- Where
- India
- Why
- To raise awareness about the emotional labor and guilt faced by working mothers
- Neha Dhupia
- Actress and working mother
- Dr. Pavitra Shankar
- Associate Consultant – Psychiatry at Aakash Healthcare
- Mom Guilt
- Emotional struggle faced by working mothers
- Children's Reactions
- Increased clinginess, separation anxiety, sleep disturbances, irritability, behavioral regression, or heightened emotional reactions
- Emotional Reliability
- Quality of connection matters more than quantity of time
- Secure Attachment
- Requires emotional reliability, not constant physical presence
- Healthy Response
- Validation, not explanation or defense
- Reframing Mom Guilt
- Recognizing unrealistic expectations, not actual emotional harm