Archive · 25 May 2025
Talk it Out: Expert Advice on Overcoming Past Trauma and Introversion
Imagine you had a tough time in school, maybe failing some classes and switching schools.
Even though you've done well in life, those old feelings can still pop up when you see others having fun with their school friends.
It's like a secret that makes you feel a bit shy.
The expert says it's important to understand those feelings, and sharing them with someone you trust can help.
Another person feels shy and unheard.
The expert advises them to practice speaking clearly and confidently, focusing on their own thoughts, and to be kind to themselves.
A reader struggles with feelings of inadequacy stemming from past school failures.
The reader, now 46, feels triggered when observing others' positive school memories.
A counselling psychologist advises acknowledging and processing past experiences.
Another reader seeks help in becoming a more confident and intentional communicator.
The advice suggests small steps like practicing clear communication and self-affirmation.
- Who
- Readers of TOI
- What
- Advice on dealing with feelings of inadequacy, the impact of past school failures and challenges related to introversion.
- When
- Ongoing
- Where
- N/A
- Why
- To provide guidance on overcoming personal challenges, like past school experiences and introversion
- Age of Reader
- 46
- Expert
- Counselling Psychologist, Mohini Agarwal