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Eva Victor Discusses Personal Journey in "Sorry, Baby"

Eva Victor Discusses Personal Journey in "Sorry, Baby"
Eva Victor Wants You To Happily “Lock In” For The Tear-Jerking ‘Sorry, Baby’ · deadline.com

Eva Victor made a movie called 'Sorry, Baby' that is very personal to her.

It's about a woman named Agnes who is trying to heal after a bad experience.

Even though the movie is about difficult things, Eva is happy people can watch it at home.

Agnes's best friend, Lydie, is going to have a baby, which makes Agnes worry about their friendship.

Eva wrote the movie because she wanted to see a story about healing after trauma, not just about the bad event itself.

The movie doesn't show the assault, focusing instead on Agnes dealing with her feelings afterward.

Eva also highlights how important friendship is, and how her own friend helped her.

The film also touches on Agnes questioning her gender identity as she figures herself out.

The story builds towards Agnes being able to help others, showing that healing is a long journey with milestones, but not a final destination.

Key facts

Film Title
Sorry, Baby
Director
Eva Victor
Starring
Eva Victor, Naomi Ackie, Lucas Hedges
Genre
Dark Dramedy
Themes
Trauma, healing, friendship, identity, gender
Streaming Platform
HBO Max
Awards
Gotham Awards nominations for Best Feature and Best Original Screenplay

Quotes

Victor

filmmaker discussing her writing and processing experiences

“The film is about a friendship — so the structure of the film is informed by the journey of that relationship. The beginning of the film is Lydie arriving and warming up Agnes’ life up with a visit, she tells Agnes big news about a baby coming. Agnes doesn’t handle this news elegantly; she responds rather selfishly, with “Are you gonna name it Agnes?” The middle of the film is marked by this generous, loving moment where Agnes tells Lydie what happened to her, and Lydie listens, and holds that without trying to fix it. At the end, Lydie visits Agnes with the manifestation of the news Agnes received at the beginning of the film— the baby is finally here. Time has passed. And, for the first time in a while, Agnes sees Lydie’s needs outside of her own— she sees Lydie wants to go on a walk with her partner Fran, so Agnes offers to babysit, which is a much more elegant response than “Are you gonna name it Agnes”. And even though it’s a small offering, it marks the end of Agnes not being able to see outside herself. And when she sits with the baby, which she feels, at first, a bit of jealousy towards by saying. “I’m no longer the baby, there’s a baby now,” she’s able to feel of use.”
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“For the character of Lydie, I was really excited to have this really exciting queer journey that feels like from the first time we meet her, she’s not even aware of her queerness, and then by the end of the film, she has this family and this baby. She’s living in New York, writing a book. She’s totally come into her own. I feel like that was a really exciting thing to give her, sort of this joyful explosion of understanding herself, but also putting that up against Agnes, who, in the last five years, has moved a table in her house to the other side of the room —that’s Agnes’ growth. Putting someone with a huge awakening next to someone who’s just trying to make it through the day is very helpful for the storytelling of time moving in different ways for different people. It was exciting to let Liddy live her life outside of Agnes, because there’s so much caretaking and worry she has for Agnes. Then I think the reason their friendship for me probably lasts a lifetime is because she prioritized herself and went to New York, even though Agnes stayed around and is stuck.”
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Eva Victor

filmmaker

“I’m really happy that now people get to watch the movie in their bed with their cat. My directive to people would be, now you can curl up, it’s not at the movie theater, so the pressure is off. Just turn on the movie, bring your best friend, bring a snack and let’s lock in.”
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“It’s a very personal story. I’ll say that.”
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