Author Reflects on the Complexities of Being a Triplet

Imagine growing up with two siblings who are always with you.

This author shares what it's like to be a triplet.

At first, it was like everyone wanted to see them.

However, the author, being the only girl, faced comments about having "bodyguards" and assumptions based on gender.

The author also had to take the same classes as her brothers.

As a result, the triplets shared the same friends and interests, and the author felt she had to be the loudest to be heard.

She felt a lack of space to grow individually until the three of them chose different academic paths.

Eventually, the author was able to develop her own friendships and a sense of independence, leading to a closer relationship with her brothers.

While appreciating the companionship, the author embraces her individuality.