Arvind Swamy on Marriage, Personal Space and Parenting

Arvind Swamy says he and his wife, Aparna, have different personalities.

He likes quiet time, while she enjoys being around people.

He says they respect each other's needs and trust each other's choices.

If Aparna asks him to attend something important, he is willing to go.

Swamy also talked about how work stress sometimes affected the way he acted with his children.

He learned that looking after himself can help him be kinder and happier with his family.

He says parents should make time for things that help them feel well.

He believes children may remember how their parents spoke to them more than how much their parents sacrificed.