Relationship Coach Advises Husband to Pause Intimacy Pursuits

A 58-year-old man asked for help with problems in his 29-year marriage.

He said he feels lonely and unwanted at home.

He also said he and his wife disagree about money and do not communicate well.

According to him, his wife has rarely shown physical affection and they have had no sex for a year.

He said attempts to discuss the problems often become arguments.

Ravi Mittal said the problem is bigger than physical intimacy.

He suggested first asking whether both partners are willing to work on the marriage.

He also recommended a marriage counsellor if they cannot discuss the issues themselves.