Archive · 13 Sep 2026
How Family, Food and Community Offer Comfort Amid Grief
The writer is feeling sad because several loved ones have died.
Being with family helps make the sadness easier to carry.
Relatives traveled from far away to say goodbye to a family member at the Ganga.
They also carried the ashes of Luca, a much-loved dog.
Sharing memories helped the family feel close again.
The writer saw children from different backgrounds walking together in Delhi.
This made the writer think that people can be different and still belong together.
Cooking and sharing food become symbols of hope, welcome and refusing to give up on one another.
The writer describes finding comfort with family in Delhi amid global conflict and personal loss.
Several relatives died, prompting the family to reunite and carry Boo Maasi’s ashes to the Ganga.
The ashes of Luca, the writer’s beloved Bernese Mountain Dog, traveled with the family’s ashes.
Relatives who had lived apart across continents reconnected through mourning, conversation, laughter and shared memories.
A group of children from different backgrounds inspires the writer to compare community with the balance of a shared meal.
- Who
- The writer, the writer’s family and relatives, and a group of children in Delhi.
- What
- The writer reflects on grief, family reunion, shared food, community and hope after several deaths.
- When
- During a period of late-summer heat in Delhi; the family gathered more than a year after Aruna’s death, while Sunita Bhua and Om Phupaji had died only days apart.
- Where
- Delhi and the Ganga, where the family carried Aruna’s ashes.
- Why
- Family, remembrance, food and community helped the writer cope with loss and maintain hope despite conflict and division in the world.
- Setting
- Delhi during intense late-summer heat
- Recent losses
- The writer says Sunita Bhua and Om Phupaji died within days of one another.
- Earlier loss
- The family carried the ashes of Aruna, known as Boo Maasi, more than a year after her sudden death.
- Family reunion
- Anjali and Vikram came from America, joining the writer, Seema, Samir and their mother.
- Memorial journey
- Aruna’s ashes were taken to the Ganga.
- Luca
- The writer’s deceased Bernese Mountain Dog, whose ashes traveled with Aruna’s.
- Central message
- Shared meals, family gatherings and acceptance can offer comfort and hope.