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Zeenat Aman Reflects on Marriage, Infidelity and Self-Preservation

Zeenat Aman Reflects on Marriage, Infidelity and Self-Preservation
'I Stayed Because We Had Children': Zeenat Aman On Her Marriage To Mazhar Khan · NDTV

Zeenat Aman talked about difficult parts of her past and the lessons she learned.

She said she now thinks about her younger self with compassion.

She explained that she married Mazhar Khan because she wanted to become a mother and have a family.

She said she stayed for a long time because they had children and she hoped things would improve.

She also said their marriage involved serious difficulties, including infidelity and his dependence on prescription painkillers.

Aman learned that loving someone does not mean giving up your own well-being.

She said a person cannot fix someone else by hurting themselves.

She believes healthy relationships should include safety, respect, friends, goals and the freedom to say no.

She also said private heartbreak in Bollywood can quickly become public gossip.

Key facts

Marriage year
Zeenat Aman married Mazhar Khan in 1985.
Children
The couple had two sons, Azaan and Zahaan.
Approximate marriage length
Aman previously said she left after around 12 years.
Reported relationship difficulties
The articles describe the marriage as involving infidelity and Mazhar Khan’s dependence on prescription painkillers.
Reason for marrying
Aman said she was ready to become a mother and believed marriage was the route to building a family.
Aman’s central lesson
She said people cannot save someone else by destroying their own well-being.
Healthy relationship qualities
She highlighted safety, respect, the ability to disagree, personal friendships, ambitions, money and the freedom to say no.

Quotes

Zeenat Aman

Bollywood actor discussing infidelity and public scrutiny

“Success can teach you confidence, but heartbreak teaches you boundaries. It teaches you that being loved is not enough if you are not respected. And that staying is not always the noble thing. Sometimes, leaving is an act of love for yourself and for the people who depend on you.”
indianexpress.com
“Infidelity is not uniquely a Bollywood phenomenon. It is a human failing. What changes in our industry is that private relationships often become public entertainment. And I don’t think anyone benefits from turning another person’s heartbreak into gossip. That’s the truth.”
indianexpress.com

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