Archive · 26 Jan 2026
Kerala Lit Fest Discusses Polyamory and Loyalty
At the Kerala Literature Festival, writer Arundhati Ghosh talked about polyamory, which is when someone has more than one romantic partner with everyone's consent.
She said that in polyamory, loyalty is shown by what you do for your partners, not just by not doing certain things.
Ghosh also mentioned that there are many misunderstandings about polyamory, like people thinking it's just about having sex with multiple people or that polyamorous people can't have long-term relationships.
She emphasized the importance of honesty, responsibility, and dignity in any relationship.
The discussion also touched on the challenges of power dynamics and patriarchy within polyamorous relationships.
Ghosh pointed out that there are no legal rights for polyamorous people in India, as the laws are based on traditional monogamous relationships.
Arundhati Ghosh discussed polyamory at the Kerala Literature Festival, emphasizing loyalty through actions rather than restrictions.
Misconceptions about polyamory include assumptions of lack of agency and inability to maintain long-term relationships.
Ghosh highlighted the importance of honesty, responsibility, and dignity in all relationships, not just polyamorous ones.
Power dynamics and patriarchy can complicate polyamorous relationships, often leading to unequal structures.
There are currently no legal rights for polyamorous relationships in India, as laws are based on heteronormative monogamy.
- Who
- Arundhati Ghosh, Ethiran Kathiravan, Sanjana Ramachandran, and attendees of the Kerala Literature Festival
- What
- A discussion on polyamory, its challenges, and the concept of loyalty within such relationships
- When
- During the ninth edition of the Kerala Literature Festival
- Where
- Kozhikode, Kerala, India
- Why
- To explore and normalize polyamorous relationships, addressing misconceptions and ethical considerations
- Event
- Kerala Literature Festival
- Location
- Kozhikode
- Speakers
- Arundhati Ghosh, Ethiran Kathiravan
- Moderator
- Sanjana Ramachandran
- Key Topic
- Polyamory and Loyalty
- Legal Rights
- None for polyamorous relationships in India
- Main Issue
- Power dynamics and patriarchy in polyamory