Archive · 14 Nov 2025
Manish Gaekwad's Memoir 'Nautch Boy' Explores Life in Kothas with Honesty
Manish Gaekwad wrote a book about his life called 'Nautch Boy'.
He grew up with his mother who was a courtesan in a place called Bowbazar in Calcutta.
The book talks about the interesting lives of courtesans, which are often misunderstood.
Manish also shares his own feelings about his identity and how he was sometimes treated unfairly.
A big part of the book is about his relationship with his mom, and how much he misses her.
He wants to share his story in a very real and honest way, using both English and Hindi words to make it even better.
It's a story about growing up in a different kind of home and learning to be true to yourself.
Manish Gaekwad's new book, 'Nautch Boy: A Memoir of My Life in the Kothas,' is noted for its refreshing honesty.
The memoir details Gaekwad's upbringing in Calcutta's Bowbazar, surrounded by courtesans and musicians, with his mother being a courtesan.
The book aims to educate readers about the rich cultural background of tawaifs (courtesans) and counteract misconceptions fueled by popular culture.
Gaekwad explores his unconventional environment, his sexual identity, exploitation, and his complex relationship with his mother, including her past actions.
The narrative is enriched by emotions, candid self-reflection, and a blend of English and Hindi language, concluding with Gaekwad's profound grief over his mother's loss.
- Who
- Manish Gaekwad
- What
- Publication of his memoir 'Nautch Boy' detailing his life in the kothas, his mother's life as a courtesan, and his experiences with sexual identity.
- When
- Recent publication (implied)
- Where
- Calcutta's Bowbazar (setting of his childhood)
- Why
- To provide an honest and intimate account of his life, dispelling popular notions about courtesans and exploring themes of identity, family, and grief.
- Book Title
- NAUTCH BOY: A MEMOIR OF MY LIFE IN THE KOTHAS
- Author
- Manish Gaekwad
- Publisher
- HarperCollins
- Price
- Rs 499