Archive · 19 Jan 2026
Raj Kundra on Marriage and Keeping Love Alive
Raj Kundra, husband of actress Shilpa Shetty, talked about how love changes in a long marriage.
He said the 'coochie-koo' love (the sweet, romantic love) lessens over time, especially when you have kids and more responsibilities.
But he and Shilpa stay strong by making time for each other, like having date nights.
A psychologist named Athul Raj also shared tips, like hugging, laughing together, and talking about the future.
He said love changes but can stay strong with small, consistent efforts.
Raj Kundra and Shilpa Shetty have been married for 15 years and share insights on maintaining love in long-term relationships.
Kundra describes marriage as the 'hardest thing,' noting that the initial romantic love fades with time and responsibilities.
He emphasizes the importance of prioritizing each other, like having regular date nights, to keep the relationship strong.
Psychologist Athul Raj advises couples to maintain curiosity, physical closeness, and laughter to sustain emotional connection.
Small, consistent habits like shared rituals, future planning, and playful interactions are key to lasting love.
- Who
- Raj Kundra and Shilpa Shetty, along with psychologist Athul Raj
- What
- Discussion on maintaining love and connection in long-term relationships
- When
- Recent conversation with Filmygyan, with reflections on 15 years of marriage
- Where
- India, with insights shared in interviews and articles
- Why
- To share experiences and advice on sustaining relationships through challenges and evolving love
- Couple
- Shilpa Shetty and Raj Kundra
- Marriage Duration
- 15 years
- Key Insight
- Love evolves from 'coochie-koo' to deeper partnership
- Expert Advice
- Counselling psychologist Athul Raj
- Key Practice
- Regular date nights and physical closeness